I had no idea...

Do you know those moments when a caretaker, loved one or simply the person who sees the whumpee as just a goofy/irresponsable/naive/irritating person, hears or finds out about a whumpey experience they've been through?

The chock on their faces, worry, perhaps even a glimpse of regret or respect, upon hearing about the traumatic experience, grief or past health issues.

They can hear from the whumpee themselves, or from someone else.

TV Shows
FBI


 * 1x07: Omar 'OA' Zidan (Zeeko Zaki) shares with the man he and Maggie Bell (Missy Peregrym) are interrogating, his story of when he saw his friends from the military unit die and how he hid and prayed to not be found too.

Grey's Anatomy


 * 2x02: To help a patient struggling with a decision regarding his abusive father, Alex Karev (Justin Chambers) shares a little about his own experience and the way he drove the man away from his mother, with Izzie Stevens (Katherine Heigl) listening on the background.

Magnum P.I.


 * 1x09: Juliet Higgins (Perdita Weeks) hears in more details about what it was like the period the guys were war prisioners, specifically how Thomas Magnum (Jay Hernandez) was constantly thrown into the solitary, the way he acted and was treated... first from Rick, and then from Thomas itself (sharing some painful memories with a kidnapped victim)

Star Trek: Picard


 * 1x08: Chris Rios (Santiago Cabrera) confides in Raffi Musiker (Michelle Hurd) about the time he had to witness his old captain's suicide and all the political circunstances around it.

The Vampire Diaries


 * 1x20: Elena Gilbert (Nina Dobrev) listens to the brothers, of how a new vampire needs to feed in order to complete the transformation, and how it all happened with them; who was Stefan's (Paul Wesley) first victim and his role on Damon's (Ian Somerhalder)... which explains a lot about the origin of Stefan's guilt.